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May 6, 2011

We've never had sex before, will he cheat?


Dear Mr.Proppafix,

I am a female and I have a boyfriend in Jamaica. We've been together for almost 2 years now. I stay overseas to attend school. He has never been in a long distance relationship so I know this is hard for him. We really have feelings for each other and promise to never let anything come between us. Problem is we never have sex and all my guy friends are saying that "you are not around to comfort him so he'll turn to other females". I try my best to ignore what they are saying but then I have second thoughts. I really think this relationship will work! Do you think he will turn to other females? What should I do about this relationship? I am impatiently awaiting your reply, Please help. Please and Thanks in Advance :)


Dear friend,

Most people would say if he really loves you he will wait, but my advice to you is that you can only hope for the best. Sometimes in life we have to make decisions that may affect us negatively such as losing important things or persons, but I personally believe what is meant to be yours will be.

1) There are some guys who will cheat on you the moment you are away.

2) There are some guys who will wait no matter how it takes for you to come back home.

3) Then there are some guys who will cheat on you even when you are around.

For now you just have to hope he fits description #2. However I am not saying he won't cheat, but at the end of the day it's not right for me to advise you that he will be faithfully. I think the best possible solution is to call each other regularly or via webcam which would even be a much better method.

That's my advice young lady tek it or leave it.

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April 27, 2011

Mr. Proppa Fix - He's 59-year-old - I am going crazy


Hi Mr.Proppa Fix,

I am a 53 year old woman dating a 59 year old man. This man came in my life with me thinking he had a retirement to live off of but I later found out he has no job, no income, no home no nothing. He has been with me for the past two months and I am tired of nothing I had him leave and now he is back just lays around the house, I stopped cooking, going place because he never had anything to contribute. No goals, I think I am going crazy can't stand it...he uses up my electric, water and gas enough is enough....what do you think...

Dear EF,

It's clear to me that you entered into this relationship with a high expectation that you will be living the time of your life. However, I must let you know that a relationship is about helping each other to be firm on their feet; it's what you called a pre-marriage. During this period you both will identify the likes and the dislikes which should not be surrounded by material things.

If you believed that he will never be able to contribute to the relationship, then I think you should move on as the tone of your mail already predicted what will be your final decision…However my advice to you is if he's not physically abusing you then I think you should give him some more time to prove himself, I notice you ran him out but still you accepted him back, which is evident that there is something special about him that you liked. Another point I want to raise is - you are not getting any younger and life with out someone to love and comfort you when you are older can be miserable…it doesn't matter the amount of cash you have stored away in the bank, it will never buy you the happiness you are searching for.

That's my advice lady tek it or leave it.

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April 16, 2011

I Caught My Husband With My Brother

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I've been married for 8yrs, with three kids I never knew my husband is bisexual, I caught him with my brother on my bed naked having sex, I never let them know what I saw. My husband is into politics, he could do anything to protect his image, what am I going to do, I have no money on me, I don't love him anymore if I leave am going to suffer, he sleeps with anything in skirts n jeans, please tell me what to do I need your help.

Dear Anonymous,

I know how nerve wrecking this must have been for you, being deceived not only by your husband but also your own flesh and blood. Before I go any further I think you should immediately file for a divorce…I don’t think you will have any problem getting out of this miserable relationship, however the best way of doing this is by confronting him about what you have seen. The fact that he’s a well known politician he will never want his bisexual behaviors to be known by the public, I am 100% convinced that you will not have an ounce of problem emancipating yourself from out of this “Ferro” relationship. If you decided to stay then it’s clear that money is your main objective of staying into this filthy relationship, never let money steps in the way of what’s right.

I am urging that you pack up and leave this man, this is not even something for you to think about. Just remember this bold step that you are about to take is for the betterment of your kids…And I am also urging that you seek counseling.

That's my advice young woman tek it or leave it.

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July 29, 2010

He Did Not Want Her To Know About Me


Hi, I am a young woman and I have had problems with this man that I once dated. See it started like this he did not tell me that he was already dating someone. So I was ready for a friendship with him.

We started having sex with each other…few weeks later a girl called my phone cursing at me and etc. I told her the whole truth about me and this man. She told me that he was her man. I called him a few days later and he picked up the phone. He cursed me out so bad. I really did feel bad. It hurt me that he cursed me out like that. I haven’t talked to him since then and I don’t plan to. I think that the reason he cursed me out was because he did not really want her to know about me and him in the first place. So please could you give me some important advice please.

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July 5, 2010

"I Am Not A Gold Digger"


Hello to you sir, first I must congratulate you on the work you are doing, I do hope you can find it to help and give your advise on my situation.

I have a boyfriend of six years but he's in the states now for three years. He went away on work programme. He's convinced that we're still together now but I don't know what to think. I love him very much still. I am sickly now and everyday and minute he call and text to see if am ok. He is concern about my health. On the other hand I met an older guy two years ago (much older), he wanted to be with me but I told him no due to the fact that I love my boyfriend a lot. Telling this guy no is an invitation to my heart. He showered me with gifts, money even when I don't want it. I must say I am not a gold digger and certainly not a user.

With my boyfriend I tell him everything, how I met this older guy and he's giving me things, he's upset but he is not the type to shower people with things but show love and affection to a person.

This other guy now is a business man and I hardly see him but he does not show the love he has for me like my boyfriend does. Well the problem is, this other guy bought me a car and almost finishes my house and as I said I am not a gold digger. I tried to tell him not but he still insists. The other problem is my boyfriend is coming in September and I don't know what to do. I want to leave the older guy but I don't want him to think anything and you know people now-a-days, they will kill even the ones they love and I don't like to break people's heart. Can you give me any advice as how to go about this situation? Thanks in advance!



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May 17, 2010

I Slept With My Boyfriend Friends


Dear Mr. Proppafix
I have been trapped in a situation that I think is more than just a fantasy. Since of late it has become a nightmare but yet still I find myself doing the same thing over and over again.

What I really want to say is that I am involved with this guy and words cannot explain how nice of a person he is. I constantly hurts him even though he has no clue about the horrible things I am doing to him. I have slept with almost every one of his friends.

He is not the first guy that I have hurt like this but I kept on doing it because it’s a big turn on for me to secretly make out with the friends of the guys who I am dating. I do not want to lose this guy that I am with right now as he is really one of the best guys I’ve ever talked to. I am now scared that one of his friends might tell him about what I have done.

Once ago it would have not been a problem if the guys found out because then I talked to them just for fun but this guy is different. Please let me know what can be done to help rid me of this addiction.

-Messed Up.


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January 11, 2010

I am 15 - Should I get Pregnant? - Mr. ProppaFix


Dear readers I am sorry for the absence of my column (Mr. ProppaFix). I had to stop the column as it gets closer to the end of my last year in University completing my Masters. However, I am back and ready for 2010 to give you a Proppa Fix, so send your letters to

Dear Mr. Proppafix,

Hey my name is Alyssa and I need your help - wondering if I should get pregnant. I am only fifteen but my life is hectic and I need someone to love.

Dear Alyssa,

I am here wondering too Alyssa. I am startled to know that you are just fifteen and already you are contemplating if you should get pregnant.

You also complained that you are living a hectic lifestyle - you did not mention the reason(s) for your lifestyle to be hectic. However, the only thing that should be occupying your teenage years right now is school.

"I need someone to love," are your exact words. Alyssa this is where I am going to recommend that you address this issue with your mother, if you are scared to talk to your mom about it then try to confide in your school’s guidance counselor.

Alyssa I am begging you to erase those foolish thoughts, you are too young to be thinking about getting pregnant and searching for love.

That's my advice young woman tek it or leave it.

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September 14, 2009

I Want Back My Virginity -- How Can I Regain It?


Dear Mr. Proppafix,

I am a Muslim girl. I am 18. I am having sex regularly since January with my boyfriend. However, my parents are against our marriage. I don't want to hurt them and I want to leave my boyfriend but the thought that am not a virgin anymore makes me restless.

I am writing to you to find a solution to my problem. I can't sleep at night and I don't feel hungry anymore. Apart from surgery, is there any way to regain my virginity??? If not, how can I convince my husband I'm a virgin when I’m not? In our culture, it's really essential for a girl to be a virgin when she gets married else she will be returned to her mother's place the next day. I am very scared about it.

What if I don't have sex for a longtime? Will my vagina be tight?? If so, will my future husband able to tell if am a virgin or not? How about the blood? How can I make him believe am a virgin? plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me out!!! AM worried!!!

Thank u v v v v v v v much in advance. Waiting for your reply impatiently.



Dear NB,

It is quite a sticky situation that you have gotten yourself in. No, there are no other ways to regain your virginity except for surgery as once the hymen is broken it's impossible to regain your virginity even if you stop having sexual intercourse.

The only solution I see to the problem is to tell your parents that you have been sexually involved with your present boyfriend and tell them about both your plans to get married. Let them know that you realize that they are against you getting married to this man but unfortunately, in your culture you are now "tainted" and cannot be married off to someone as a virgin. Put it this way, better to deal with their wrath now before getting someone else involved and bringing shame to them when you are returned to them because you are not a virgin. All the best and I do hope it works out for you!


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August 31, 2009

Nuh Put No Woman Pon Yuh Head -- Mr. Proppafix


Dear Mr. Proppa fix,

I met a girl I like in high school while I was still in Jamaica when we were teenagers. I could not come and visit her for a couple years, but I haven't stopped sending her money through western union. She told me that she’s being faithful to me and everything but once I called her on the phone one night and she answered and said "yes" "yes" "yesss" then she threw down the cell phone on the bed and thought it was turned off. All I heard was dirty talks along with sexual sounds it sounded like busy signals song "mi nah answa" in there.

I don't know what to do she takes all my plane fare why I cannot come and visit her. I can't say I’m mad -- but she is my complete equal in every way but it wasn't suppose to be like this my father had told me once that she was the one for me and I knew it the very moment our eyes meet. I even gotten into physical fistfights over her with my friends and loved it because it we were fighting for her loving eyes. I don't know what to do should I continue with this relationship I have waited a long time for her hand in marriage and need her in my life in my country.

Dear JR,

From the tone of your letter, I can tell that you are truly in love with this girl, but on the other hand, you are far from reality.

You need to get a grip of yourself, as this girl is only using you…This is not high school days anymore, brother I know it's hard for you to believe, but she has moved on. If you really want to know, what kind of person she is then stop sending her money for a while and sees what happens.

Even though your dad gave you the thumbs-up about this girl that doesn't means he's right…from the moment you called her and she answered "yes, yes, yesss" in that aggressive tone along with the sexual sounds you heard - that's a clear indication that things are not the same anymore.

My brother "nuh put nuh woman pon yuh head."


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August 4, 2009

My Man Is A Cross-dresser - Should I Marry Him?

Can you please give me some advice on what to do?


Dear Mr. Proppafix,

I have the most loving relationship any girl could ask for. The sex is great, my man is very caring, I want for nothing, my 3 kids (for this same man) are very happy as he loves them and showers them with affection. From the outside looking in, it is the perfect relationship. My problem is this, Mr Proppafix, he has asked me to marry him and I am having serious doubts. A while back I saw him with some female garments and we had this huge argument as I thought he was having an affair and that is when he confessed to me that he is a cross dresser. He said that he is happy that I finally find out and that he can be himself around me. He assures me that he is not gay, that he is not bi-sexual that he just loves to wear female clothes and make-up. My problem is I don’t know if I should marry him. I need your advice.

Dear Confused,
I think that you should look at the substance of your relationship over the matter. Women's intuition is very good and you can tell if your man is gay. If your intuition tells you that he is not (don't be in denial if it tells you that he is) then I think that you should go ahead and marry the man. You should discuss this openly though before you get married and tell him what you honestly feel about him dressing up as a woman.


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July 22, 2009

I masturbate everyday


Dear Proppafix,

Can you please give me some advice on what to do about my masturbating habits?

This addiction is now causing problems in my relationship because by the time my boyfriend gets home I am well satisfied. So when he's in need of intercourse I am just not in the mood because I've already masturbated three times for the day.

Mr. Proppafix I don't know if you knew this but when a woman reaches her peak she just don't feel like having no penetration. My boyfriend has no idea of my masturbating habits and now he's accusing me of giving him bun. He's a very nice guy but I just can't seems to find the urge of having sex with him unless he comes home just in time before I masturbate.

Please tell me what I can do get rid of this addiction that seems to be on its way of wrecking my relationship?

At some point in your life, you have to make choices between what is important and what is not. You therefore have to consciously make the decision between your addiction and your relationship. For any kind of addiction there is a root cause; whether it be drugs, alcohol or masturbation, to name a few. You have to find out what it is that makes you want to masturbate as opposed to making love to your boyfriend.

I would suggest that you seek some counseling before you tell him about your addiction so that he can see that you are indeed trying to kick the habit. Good luck.

That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it

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July 15, 2009

I get wet for girls - Am I becoming a lesbian?


Dear Proppafix,

Hello, good day to you sir I hope you will be able to help me with a few issues that are stressing me.

Sir I have a problem trying to figure out if I am a lesbian or not. Why? Because within the past few months my feelings for girls have been getting deeper and it’s now creeping the guts out of me. It’s like I am becoming something that I don’t want to become but at the same time I find myself wondering what it would be like to make love to another girl, kissing her lips, her neck and playing with her nipples. Sir I even started dreaming about girls.

Once, one of my friends asked to spend the weekend with me and I happily told her yes. She went to have a bath and asked me to pass a towel for her, after giving her the towel I just could not get out of the bathroom, my virgina immediately gets wet and I felt like holding her and kissing her. Up to this day I am still, wonder if she recognize how seductive my eyes were all over her body.

My question is am I becoming a lesbian and if so, what can I do to get this feeling away or is it that I should go along and live my fantasies?

-Am I


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June 30, 2009

He was 40, I was 15 when he took my virginity - Sex not so good anymore


Let me just get straight to the point I'm a 23 year old young girl seeing a soon to be 48 year old man. We have been going strong for eight years now he's the guy who took away my virginity at the age 15, he was 40 at da time. But the sex isn't so good now. I'm thinking of ending it.

Wat do u think Mr. Proppafix?

At 15 yrs old, you should not have been having sex and worse, this 40-yr-old man should have known better than to be having sex with you. However, your relationship has been continuing and you are now an adult - so ask yourself why you were in this relationship in the first place. Compare the good times you have had and all the things he has done and continues to do for you against just the sex not being good. Also, ask yourself if the sex life is deteriorating because you are no longer as interested as you used to be. I would not suggest that you leave a man just because of the sex. I would encourage you to "get back to basics" with him. Tell him all the things that he used to do to excite you, to make you enjoy sex and want to have more sex, start to "try out" new, exciting ways and places to have sex. Be creative, be adventurous which might help to put the spice back in your sex life.

There is also the fact that there may be trouble in the future as you are just 23 yrs old. In another 10 yrs when you would have reached your sexual prime, he will be almost 60 yrs old but with the help of sex enhancing drugs, it could still work if you are still interested then as I know men that are way into their 70s still having an active sex life. Good luck and all the best.

All the best- this is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it.

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June 8, 2009

I am not a virgin - I lied


Dear sir I am a 19-year-old female with a little problem, the thing is I met this guy about a month and couple days ago who is very cute and sexy.

Within the first two weeks, he started requesting sexual pleasures, it’s not that I don't want to but I have told him a big lie and I think it will affect our relationship.

When I just met him, we shared our likes and dislikes. We then started talking about sex during our discussion he told me that he always fantasized about making love to a virgin. At the time, I wanted to impress him so I told him that he was looking at his fantasy.

I really need your advice on this one because I am so in love with this guy, I don't know why I did not speak the truth but I guess it’s a female thing. Right now, we are not on good terms because he thinks I am playing by not wanting to have sex with him. The other day we were all set to go out then he called and told me if we are not going to have sex, it makes no sense seeing each other. Please tell me what to do, I don't want to lose him.

- I Lied


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May 21, 2009

I am in love with my sister

I am asking for your help, advice, anything that will help me to get rid of this feeling


Dear Mr. Proppafix,
I know this might seems extremely weird to you but for me it’s happening and I would love for what I am going to explain to you to stop, but I am addicted to what is also addicted to me and that is my little sister. I will not disclose anything much about her or myself because it would be shameful if our parents were to ever find out.

This is the dilemma I have been facing, I went away to study in the States, after a few months away from home I found myself thinking a lot about my sister by my father’s side of the family. I guess by now you have picked up what I am talking about. She thinks a lot about me as well. At first it seems like nothing but now I think I am losing it because the last time when I came to Jamaica, she introduced me to her boyfriend and I could feel my heart crying, from then until now it has been affecting me, whenever I think about her having someone else. Even so, we still shared moments together, but I hate to know that she has a boyfriend now.

Mr. Proppafix I think I am in love with my sister and I am asking for your help, advice, anything that will help me to get rid of this feeling. At this moment, I am not seeing anyone else and sometimes just by thinking about my sister it feel as if I have the world but now that I am getting more mature, I am beginning to realise that what we are doing is wrong but yet it feels so great.



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May 6, 2009

My heart is not at home - I'm in love with someone's man


Dear ProppaFix, I really need your advise on this one I am nineteen years of age and I live with my boyfriend he is 25. This year will be three years since we have been together. This guy does everything he can for me, he pay all the bills have sex with me whenever I want however I want it and goes out with me and takes the best care of me.

When I first started to date him I wasn't in love with him, I just did it for the convenience, however I have a little feeling for him. My problem with him his he don't know what he is doing financially he is always in debt and I am not sure about his goals - he seems to be very reluctant. He doesn't have a passport a license or try to get a visa and all these little things.

She's In Love With Another Man

I am in love with this other guy. He lives with his girlfriend and he as a very busy job and he also have his son which does not live with him so he have to attend to him. I don't know why but I am so in love with him we have a very good reasoning ability we talk about anything and when we make love he seems to enjoy it so much. We have sex anywhere anytime. But sometimes he is too busy for me like he haven't gotten me anything for my birthday saying he is so busy. I don't know what to do, I don't want to stay and hurt the guy that I am with because he wants a child and I don't want to get pregnant for him the other guy lives with his woman and I don't want to come out and then end up alone but my heart is not at home I don't know what to do.

-Confused Girl


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April 30, 2009

"My man has no job for eleven years, I pay rent, light & water bills - need your advice"


Hi Mr. Proppafix

First, I must commend you on the good job you have been doing. I am 28 years old and have been with my children's father for almost eleven years now. Out of the years of togetherness, I am the one who has been working three quarter of the time and when I talk about it, he starts to flare up and behave as if he will hit me. We have bills to pay (rent, light & water bills) and I have to be standing everything. I tried to leave him more than once but we always end up back together.

He is in to inherit some money from family ties and he expect us to get married but I don't really want to stay with him because I think one day he will get really upset and might go as far as hurting me. He always mouths the children on every slip up and that is not right. I think that he can cut them some slack sometimes because no man is perfect. I am in a loop here so please I need your advice.

Sexy Diva


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March 17, 2009

Thank you Mr. Proppafix for your concern advice


Hello Mr.Proppa Fix,

I am glad that my article titled My girls are always complaining - I can't give that extra mile has been finally published with advices from you. So as from today I am starting to do and act as you have advised me and any improvement will be made known to you anytime in the future.

I am so glad that you don’t only care about people in Jamaica but also in Africa and especially my tiny and poor nation of Sierra Leone. I am a regular viewer of and hope to make more Sierra Leoneans become conversant with this site. I am somebody that greatly loves your culture and believe that I will one day visit that Island which I've dreamt of always since I started knowing good from bad.

Hope to continue sending my views on certain issues that are really tormenting me. And also glad to tell you that Sierra Leoneans love Jamaican culture as well as their music’s. So we in Sierra Leone are hoping to one day see more Jamaican artist come to Sierra Leone.

Big shout out to you Mr. Proppa Fix and also to the team.

Love and Respect
-A.M From Freetown,Sierra Leone(West Africa)

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March 3, 2009

My girls are always complaining – I can't give that extra mile


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,

I am a guy living in Freetown (Sierra Leone, West Africa) and 30yrs. old. For the past two (2) to three (3) months, I have been experiencing serious problems concerning my sexual life. Before, I use to have great pace and energy during sex, but now things seem to turn around a bit. My penis doesn't get stronger and I can't give that great pace and go that extra mile I use to have and go during sex. My sperm is no longer as thick as it used to be -even if I abstain from sex for a month.

So please, I'm really confuse and wanted to get myself out of this situation but don't know how. I am only able to have better sex when I drink about four(4)or five(5)bottles of hot stout and at least two(2)joints of ganja in order to give me that extra power needed to satisfy my girls. I used to be a person with extra energy and pace before. My girls always complimented me for and now it's really boring with me because of my situation.

So please, kindly help me out of this situation as your advice will be of great importance and help to me.
Dear A.M.

There are a few things that you need to consider before you worry about loosing your sexual abilities:

1) -- Are you getting enough exercise and are you eating properly? This can affect your performance not only in the bedroom but in general as eating the wholesome foods gives, you the energy you need to operate to the best of your abilities. Balance your diet, drink a lot of water and always remember to have fresh fruits and vegetables as much as possible. I guarantee that this will increase your energy levels significantly.

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February 17, 2009

He helps me financially but he's below my standard - what should I do?


Dear Mr. Propafix,
I really need your advice. I am 19 years old and I am involved with a 38 year old man. So far he has been treating me really nice and helps me with any financial difficulty. I attend a well known teachers college and I’m at my final year but at times I feel like I’m too good for him are he is below my standard. He does not know anything about Standard English, he is always very loud, he comes from the ghetto, he work has a bus driver and yes, he has a son who is 5 years old. Inspite of all those things I still find him to be a sweet individual and I just cannot leave him. We have been together for almost a year and there has been no problem it’s just smooth sail. But why am I having second thoughts, please help me out.

Dear AW,

From what I am reading, I don’t think it has nothing to do with he being really nice to you or the fact that he doesn’t know Standard English, I think you are more worried about going back to your poor financial status if you were to end the relationship.


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February 2, 2009

I have a way with girls - but I ejaculate first - Help!


Yeah Mr. Proppa! I am a guy 19 yrs old. I kinda have a way with girls but sometimes I worried if I am pleasuring my girls the way they like it. What is the best way to find out if I am indeed doing well? What do I do to make sure she gets what she is looking for? Lastly, sometimes I "finish first" depending on the mood, how do I control it if I am not ready?

-Mr. Pleasure


Dear Mr. Pleasure,

video_premature_ejaculation_tips.jpgIt’s always important to communicate with your partner during sexual intercourse this is the number one way of knowing if you are doing a good job. In addition, when having sex pays attention to your partner and watch for signs of pleasure that most women displayed on their face. Another tip is most women will squeeze you whenever they are experiencing great pleasure - for a bonus effect continue to penetrating that same area and that should do the job.

As for your premature ejaculation, I have inserted a video with a few tips on how to prevent premature ejaculations. If your problem persist, it would be best for you to make an appointment with a sexologist

That is my advice young man - tek it or leave it

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January 28, 2009

"He Who is Without Sin, Let Him Cast The First Stone..."

By K.A.L
Letter To The Editor

moses_photos_gospel.jpgIn light of the tragic news that has hit the Christian community regarding the passing of Gospel Recording Artiste, Kasim “Moses” Grant, I find it imperative to write this piece, why? because already the rumors, half truths and twisted facts are flying, belittling what this young man stood for all his adult life, and with an even more detrimental issue at work, the attempt of the enemy to erase his efforts in life with one last tragic mistake, the type of mistake that not only gives the body of Christ a black-eye in the eyes of the public, but also gives the enemy the type of victory he yearns for daily.

We have all heard the reports, the speculations, accusations and assumptions, but what really happened, did Moses have a gun, was it a licensed firearm, was it an illegal firearm, was he killed, did he commit suicide? The questions are many, and like always, the answers are few, but the twisted facts are many; so where do we go from here, do we condemn this young man without knowing what really happened?

Some of us already have, and some are unsure about what to believe, but forget what you heard, feel or even know to be the truth, because regardless of the facts, one thing remains true, we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God, and like Jesus said, “He who is without sin, let him cast the first stone,” John 8:7.

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January 13, 2009

After he slid in his d*ck he stopped calling me


Dear Mr Proppafix

I'm so confuse. I like this guy that goes to the same school as me. We talk...during our conversation I asked him if he has a woman his response were "not really" after all that he asked for my number so, I gave it to him. He didn't call me till a week after... One night (a Monday night) he called... he asked me out, while we were there enjoying one another company, he asked for a kiss so I gave him suddenly I feel his hand touching my breast so I move away and tell him that he is going too far.

He didn't call me till the next Monday so, I asked him why he didn't called me, he said he been calling me but no one was home so I let that passed. So I told him that I don’t expect a commitment, I aint that stupid, but at the same time I am not looking for a one time, two time f**k. Tuesday he asked me out again, I said yes...we went out again but this time we take it to another level. We started kissing one another, feeling one another...Another hot and humid kiss rekindled our fire. He asked, "Since you already satisfy me let me satisfy you back" ...I whispered in a rhetorical tone, “We cant do this. Not this quick. Getting naked too soon always leads to problem...his dick slid in my vagina but before 6 seconds I tell him to stop, so we stopped kiss and that was it...while we're there heading home we had a wonderful conversation.

from since that night he haven't call me so, I am wondering if it was all about the sex he wanted or he want me to miss him....I know this sound a bit off but, I'm a bit confuse...I need your advise.


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December 28, 2008

Mavado and Vybz Kartel Clash at Sting 2008 - It's a tie

Dear Editor,


My question is who really won the clash, was it Mavado or is it Vybz Kartel? I was at Sting and I watched two of Jamaica’s best deejays battled. However, at the end of the day no one seems to can identify who’s the victor. Some people saying it’s Vybz Kartel and by the time I reached the exit another bunch of people saying Mavado kill the deejay. I am not a fan of Vybz Kartel or Mavado so I should be able to give my honest opinion about what took place at Sting.

Before I even go any further, hats off to Mavado and Vybz Kartel for making the battlefield crowdy and to also demonstrate to the world that we can once again have lyrical face-offs without physical action. Mavado is to be further commended for taking up the task of a Dj in battling Vybz kartel- a man known to know no lyrical boundaries, a man who feels that ‘all is fair in love and war’!

Now lets talk about who won the clash, Mavado or Kartel, yeah man it’s Kartel, nooo man it’s Mavado, okay it’s a tie. I know Vybz Kartel’s fans or Mavado’s fans might not agree but as you read on you will understand what I am suggesting. Fans need to put aside their personal likes for each artiste and admit the fact that both artistes did exceptionally well to have their fans going home confused wondering who won the clash.

One Man's Victory
Merciless’ victory against Bounty Killer and Ninja Man at Sting 2000 is what you called a 100% win. Everyone left the venue complimenting Merciless for dismantling Bounty Killer and Ninja Man.

The first half of the clash definitely went to Vybz Kartel AKA Adi Di Techa, it’s also evident that Mavado became a bit nervous. Even though he was, being lyrically punished by Vybz Kartel the Gully Gad stood his ground and managed to propel his self-back into the clash.

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December 25, 2008

My man slept with my mother by accident


Dear Mr Proppafix

My man slept with my mum by accident. He claims it is an accident and my mum never really knew he was my boyfriend although it seems she suspected it a bit because she asked me about him before and if we've done anything. I never really told her about my boyfriends because she could use it against me later and say stuff. I'm highly pissed off! I came in the house and heard them in her bedroom together and now I don't know what to do. I'm confused, should I leave the one I love and what about my mum? Should I forgive her?

She's married but has been cheating on my father for awhile now but being a loyal daughter I kept my mouth shut for awhile but once I told my daddy she's been upset at me ever since even had the nerve to say " She wish she never had me."

Help me out I'm in need of some REAL advice because I've been with my man since 2006 and I plan for him to be my husband in the near future. He claims he loves me and is very sorry but if he did this imagine what he does behind my back .I just am in need of some advice on what should I do in this situation.


Spanish Jamaican

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December 16, 2008

My cousin has sex with every guy she meets on the internet


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,

My cousin is very disgusting she has sex with almost every guy she talks to.
I want to help her but unsure of how to so I'm in need of your advice. This is what happened:

My cousin has been having sex with a lot of different guys and I always come along just to make sure nothing bad happens to her especially when she's meeting the guys she talks to on the internet. She meets them on Myspace talks awhile and tells them all the sexual stuffs she wants to try then she sets dates to meet them and I tag-along because she asks me to just to make sure she's safe. When we reach to a guy's house I sit and wait in the living room while she has sex with them and / or suck them off. I don't mind if she did that with her boyfriend but she's just doing this with random guys. She has even had sex with three friends, one right after the other but I wasn’t there, but then I found out because now she's being called a whore / slut and she thinks her p*ssy is good that's why people are talking about her.

The worst thing happened recently in the summer when we were in Jamaica. This guy picked her up with his car and I went also and I waited outside the car while he f**ked her in the back seat then a couple days later everyone in the town was talking about it. That made her upset since we have cousins and a Grandma and family members living in Jamaica. Now I've told her mother about her frequent sex acts and her mum said to me she hopes her and her father catch aids.

We recently went to the doctor together since I'm a runner on the track team at my school so I had to get a physical and she went to get a check-up and found out she had to see a gynecologist. Her vagina is bleeding uncontrollably with period blood and it's lasting longer than suppose to but I know the truth, it's because of what she's been doing. It's been affecting her since January this year but she's been hiding it until now since she had to go to the doctor because the bleeding won't stop.

Well please Mr. Proppafix let me know some ways to help her if that's even possible.

Concerned Cousin




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December 8, 2008

I am 18 - with a married man - I cheated on him and he forgives me


Dear Mr. Proppafix,

I am an 18-year-old student living in east Kingston. I attend a prominent high school and I am doing fairly well in school. I met a 38-year-old married man almost a year now who I became involved with. He is a very nice person who wants the best for me. We share many things in common and it’s like I can’t do without him. I also can’t complain about the sex which is very good because he knows his stuff.

In June I went to Barbados for 3 months and came back in September, however when I was there I cheated on him which was not suppose to happen. It was once and I told him about it and he claimed to have forgiven me. I didn’t believe this, because in late September his calls were minimized and then the next thing I know he was telling me I am on a time out. I was really pissed during my time out I started talking to someone - he had the audacity to ask if he gave me permission to do so!

It’s like I am living on the edge where he is concerned because the other day I was by his house and when he was driving out his wife was going home and I nearly get my a*s whooped. If I mention to him that he is using me, he will get upset. I honestly don’t want to leave him because he is like a best friend to me I tell him everything and he is always there for me.

He also has a child not with his wife and he doesn’t want one with his wife neither sometimes I have to wonder if he is gay because he doesn’t want to have any children with his wife. Not even with me because I don’t want a bastard child if I let him get me pregnant. Things are so complicated of late, I don’t know what to do things are not the same, and I feel like I am holding on to someone that is not there. He is a November man who loves sex to the max, I don’t even trust him. Sometimes I feel like when his wife is at work he brings in other women and when I call, he tells me he is sleeping because I see him do it when we are together. I really don’t know what to do.

Worried Teen

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November 18, 2008

My boyfriend has two baby mothers - Should I cheat to make this work


Dear Mr.Proppa fix,

I am 18 years of age and am currently dating a 26-year-old man. He has two kids for two different mothers. I knew about this when the relationship was already in full swing so it was hard for me to leave, plus he is no longer with either of them so it was not easy for me to detect. He says he loves me, but these days I don’t think men understand the meaning of that word anymore.

Although he is always around me, he has these unbearable ways. When we’re together he is always looking at other women (and a mean ‘bruking’ him neck to do so), this is why I don’t act intimate with him in public because I don’t want to look like a fool. His phone is ALWAYS ringing, and sometimes they sound a little too intimate because he starts whispering or he leaves my presence to take the phone call. His explanation is, “him ‘pree’ other people because he likes to be aware of his surrounds” and the phone calls are just friends, then he tries to flip the script and asks- what about the calls I get or the people I look at? When we go out, especially to clubs this is where I get the feeling most, because he tends to leave me every 5mins.

In terms of finance, it splits into a sixty- forty ratio with me being 60. I mean he is the one working and I’m the one spending more. I know all of this sounds bad but he still treats me amazing and the sex is great and complicated at the same time. We broke up several times for this and I must admit a love the break-ups because they are always so dramatic and exciting. Since reuniting there are slight changes, and he is someone I love to be around because of his personality, however I still don’t trust him.

To be honest I haven’t been completely innocent because of him, I snoop around to make myself feel better about this, but not to the extent to call it cheating. Should I cheat to make this work because I feel that’s the only way?

p.s. I know that at the end of reading this you might think that this relationship is too big for me, and I fell like I can already predict your response, however a really want you to think about it.

-Dear J.R.

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November 12, 2008

I caught my wife having sex at home - I can’t stop thinking about her


Dear Mr. proppafix

I am a middle-aged educator at a prominent school in rural Jamaica. I have been having some problems for the past few months and I was wondering if you could advise me as how to deal with them. Others have told me that I am a quiet person and I tend to keep all my feelings inside instead of revealing them to others so writing this letter to you is a huge step for me.

I was raised in a Christian household, and like many Christian young men, I decided to get married at an early age. She is much more outgoing than I am - she likes to go out, she has many friends and has a lot more hobbies than I do. She used to always say that I needed to be more adventurous and that I act like an old man!

I gave her all my love, commitment, and I never looked at another woman while we were together. Our sex life was interesting and the first time we made love, I realized that she was experienced. It was my first time so I was lost and I felt a little embarrassed, but she assured me that she would work with me until I became a ‘pro’.

We had been having some rocky times in our marriage and this is so painful to say but to cut a long story short, I came home one day to find her having sex with a man in my house on my bed! Obviously, she had to go and we haven’t spoken since.

My big problem is - call me crazy or just plain stupid, but I still think about her. Sometimes I wonder what she is doing and if she is ok! She works part time and I wonder if she is making ends meet. I don’t know how to get her out of my thoughts. I haven’t mentioned these feelings to anybody because I am afraid that they will laugh at me and maybe think I am stupid. Should I contact her and reconcile? Technically, she is still my wife because the divorce is not final.


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November 11, 2008

Who are kidnapping our women & children - CULTISM or PLAIN EVIL?

By Patrice Henry
Letter To The Editor

Last week was my first time writing to's (Letter to the Editor), but since the constant kidnapping of females and children I felt it is right for me to say my piece. I hope the authorities can quickly put an end to this plague that has fallen on our society.

patrice.jpgCultism - A religion or religious sect generally considered to be extremist or false, with its followers often living in an unconventional manner under the guidance of an authoritarian, charismatic leader - (The Free Dictionary)

With the recent rise of abduction in our communities, it begs for question the thoughts being concocted in the minds of these offenders. Are they operating under the guise of Cultism or is this just Plain Evil being brought upon us?

The usage of the word “offenders” seems an understatement as it is hard to refer as mildly to persons that would find pleasure in hurting other human beings.

From the news reports, their Modus Operandi is targeting women & children; however, there have been isolated incidents of attack on men also. Whether or not the attacks are related, is yet to be confirmed.

Stories have been told of children, terrified to go to school & to return home, for fear that they too may fall prey to these maniacal traps.

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November 9, 2008

Predictably, Dancehall Artistes Start Tearing Each Other Apart

Vibez Kartel doing the Crab in a Barrell dance

I Am, Amy Ashwood
Letter To The Editor

vybzkartel_bountykillerbeenieman_arrested.jpgOn behalf of all the persons who gripe but do not write, I am begging broadcast programmers to reconsider the content of entertainment programmes between now and the December holiday seasons. If what was aired on TVJs Entertainment Report on Friday, November 7 is any indication of what is to come, we can look forward to a Filth-Filled Christmas.

The programmer explained that he sought only to expose what was in the mind of international dancehall entertainer and current chart topper Vibes Kartel. I think that a documentary would have been a better vehicle to expose how he aggrandises his songwriting prowess, endorses his products and degrades another working-class dancehall artiste. He ended his taunts of that fellow artiste with the call “bill!” - a reference to the bill cutlass that will hook, cut and tear in one motion. In truth, this is an old tactic. Every year around this time dancehall artistes try to build the hype around themselves so that they can charge big fees during the holiday season.

The ER feature included clips of Kartel assaulting the viewer with a toy gun, and the producer added to the assault by including a gunshot audio to that motion. The effect of creating a menacing moment on an entertainment programme in prime time was achieved. This was so disrespectful to viewers and wrong for the type of programme.

Among Kartel’s claims is that he is the “baddest DJ in the history of dancehall” and that Jamaican people will be the judge of this. I have taken the liberty to distill some of what he has been promoting since the start of 2008:

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Open Letter To The Broadcasting Commissioner - TVJ's Entertainment Report

This letter was sent to the Broadcasting Commission and was forwarded to by the writer Amy Ashwood.

Dear Commissioner,

New-TVJ-logo.gifI am moved to write about the content of TVJs November 7 edition of Entertainment Report between 8:00p.m. and 8:30 p.m. which carried, in my humble opinion, content that promotes the furtherance of creative work, not news, that is offensive to the general public and dangerous to young minds and therefore possibly contra to the conditions of the broadcast license.

There was an extensive interview with the entertainer Vibes Cartel (Vybez Kartel) discussing a feud between himself and fellow dancehall entertainer Mavado. In the Interview, Cartel mentioned that the lyric, "mek duppy like number on SIM card."

I am sorry that the programme editor considers this to be family entertainment and not a vehicle for crass, destructive celebrity gossip. It seems to me to be a an obvious build-up to another dancehall cass cass in time for Christmas and another money making Sting clash? A look at the charts will be instructive, as they are both in the lead and perfectly poised for a duel.

During the top ten countdown of popular songs the top three songs alluded to or veiled offensive lyrics that are in the following songs:

#3 - Movado "Car Back"
The clip "Seh no care so she fuck pon the car top" was played with the expletive bleeped.

The rest of the song was not played but mentions:
"We nyam pum pum like a pizza pack"

“Dem gyal deh nuh care, Dem sidung pon mi sittin like chair;
Mi move di G-string unda wear, PUM-PUM! Too phat it affi share.
Suh mi gi har fi handle it, She 'LAAD woi Bangle it'.
Too big suh she cyaah dismangle it; She ah walk and ah shankle dip.”


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November 5, 2008

What a great & historic day!!!!! - "Obama To Di World"

By Patrice Henry
Letter To The Editor

patrice.jpgGood Morning Mr. President (Elect) - Mr. Barack Obama. President of the World!! I am not American. I am Jamaican but it fills me with absolute pride & joy to be a part of this great day in history. This victory is not just America's but also the World as a whole. American politics has long infiltrated the affairs of the world & so we all celebrate. From every 'nook & cranny', we say THANKS for this great CHANGE.

The rise of an African-American as President not only gives young & upcoming generations confidence and a new outlook on American politics as it has been known for over 200 years, but it also gives a sense of liberation to Black people all over who have fought for many years for this dream to become a reality.

It gives hope to people of colour everywhere. It gives solace to realize that America is now turning it's eyes away from colour and now to progression.

Many of us thought we'd never see this day but it is now here. Our children & our children’s children will now know of an America that chose a man of colour for President.

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November 4, 2008

My boyfriend's d*ck is too big

"The sex is so painful, it’s like I can feel him in my belly bottom".


Dear Mr proppafix,

Please don’t laugh at me when I relate my problem to you, but it is really very ironic. I am an educated young lady who lives and works in the corporate area. I recently got in a relationship with a successful, caring and understanding young man and everything was fine until we started having sex. He has a huge penis - the first time I saw it I was in total shock. I had no idea that he was walking around with that weapon in his pants.

At first, I thought I would get use to it after having sex couple of times with him but it has been more than three months now and it’s the same tribulation I am going through.

The irony of the situation is that I used to always jokingly tell my girl friends that I didn’t want any small d*ck man but it seems that I have taken on more than I can handle. I love him dearly, but I am so afraid of him in the bedroom and even though he is so caring and careful with me - the sex is so painful, it’s like I can feel him in my belly bottom. The first time we had sex I had to see a doctor the day after because I thought he had shifted my womb.

Our sex problem has led me to resort to giving him oral sex instead of letting him penetrate me, but he told me that there is no compromise to the ‘real’ thing.

Sometimes I develop an argument so I would have a valid reason not to have sex with him because I am not getting any pleasure, my mind is only on the pain. Even though I love him, at times I think of giving up on the relationship because it would be unfair to have someone love you and you are not able to please them a hundred percent.

Mr proppafix I am in a real dilemma, although it might sound a bit cliche, but this guy is everything that a girl could ever want in a man. What should I do? I am confused.



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October 29, 2008

Mr. Proppa Fix, Help Me to Leave My Man

I'm not satisfied sexually or emotionally with this man


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,
For the past 12 months, I've been with a man who's done nothing but lied to me. We hooked up about a year ago, he was just coming out of a relationship and so was I. At first, I was skeptical about him but he played his role so well that I didn’t even see it. I mean this man sold me a dream, he was different from the previous man that I was with, or so I thought. He acted nice, caring and understanding of my needs and everything. Hell he even acted as if he was financially stable which at this day and age is hard to find. We spoke about what we were getting ourselves into and I even told him that we could take things slow and there was no rush. Of course, at times he ended up accusing me of not wanting to take things seriously.

Anyway, less than 6 months into this relationship, I walked into him with another woman accidentally, but I believe that it was God's way of telling me that he was just a jerk. Of course, my initial response was to run fast the other way which I did but later I ended back with him after he apologized so much and claimed that he would not do that again (I didn’t believe him but I stayed). I'm young, financially stable, well educated with a B.A and I am currently studying my Masters Degree. I actually don't need this man to do anything for me especially after I found out that he was only a BUM with a job .He parties constantly, cannot support his self financially and whines about everything. I really don't have the time to babysit a grown man and I have had it with him.

I'm not satisfied sexually or emotionally with this man. If I stay with him, I will have to cheat and I'm not the type of woman to stray. I want to break up but the only problem is that he is a fixture in the Dancehall community and a lot of people know that we are indeed together. They will never understand my decision to break it off & will probably think I'm the "Whore" when he is the one because he portrays an image of perfection to them. How do I handle this? Your response will be kindly appreciated. Thank you.

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October 21, 2008

My husband wants oral sex whenever I am seeing my period – but I kept denying him


Dear Mr Proppafix
I am having a serious problem with my marriage and I would love if you could give me your take on the situation. My husband and I have been married for three years now and we have enjoyed an excellent relationship up until a few months ago. We have never had a problem with discussing our feelings with each other, which I think is why our relationship has been so good.

The problem is - a few months ago, my husband came in from work heated for sex. This time however I was on my period and when I told him, he said something that I never thought he would say to me. He said that he wanted me to go down on him since he could not get the thing that he really wanted. I was a bit shocked at first because he has never brought any argument like that to me before.

I didn’t do it at the time but for days after my mind was still on the whole situation and I thought that It would be fun for us to go down on each other. When I suggested this to him, he became angry, said men were not meant to do those things, and women were because it is the only way we can please our man when seeing period. He claims that I should do it because he doesn't want to cheat on me when he is horny and I am unavailable to please him.

Mr proppafix, I couldn’t believe that he could reason something out like that because it’s unfair to me. Since the whole argument, our sex life has deteriorated because he has been pressuring me to do it to him whenever I am seeing my period and I have been refusing. I would have probably done it if he didn’t talk all that bullsh*t about women were designed to give head!

I don’t know what I am going to do about this whole situation because I can’t afford for something as stupid as this to wreck our marriage- pleases I would love some of your advice.


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October 14, 2008

I am in love with a girl who won’t be able to have any more kids

She told me she has one kid but after two years I found out it’s five


Mr Proppa Fix march 2006 I meet this half Chinese girl so pretty that you wouldn’t want a fly to pitch on her, she’s kind, loving, caring she was something to talk about. But as time goes by I remember finding myself with a fractured ankle in the early stage of the relationship. I was low on cash throughout my injuries and she was the one supporting me with what she has. My injuries last for about two and a half month so her little has gone then I start working.

We have been together now for the past two years, but since of late I found out that she don't want me to talk much to her family, I keep on questioning myself why. Then approaching the end of the second year a serious allegation reaches my ears this was when I went fishing with her brother who told me that she has five kids, she was 33 years of age, and I get to understand that she is not able to produce any more children. When I met her, she told me she was 28yrs old, she had one child and she don't smoke.

When hearing, my idea was to end it but I remember what she did for me during my injuries so I planning to help her the way I can before telling her its over because I'm not planning to play an ungrateful role. I never confront her with it because her answers would be no and I hear from several of her family. Now that I am in Anguilla I am planning to tell her it’s over, but her family and friends are begging me not to leave her so what should be the best ideal thing to do.

-Sent from my BlackBerry


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October 6, 2008

I invested my brother's money in Cash Plus without his permission


Dear Mr Proppafix:

I never thought that I would be in a situation like this. I am a 26-year-old woman living in Jamaica and. I am from a close-knit family and I am always keeping in regular contact with all of them particularly my younger brother who is currently working in the United States.
My younger brother and I have always had the best relationship out of all my other siblings. I am his number one confidant when it comes on to personal matters or anything else whether it is relationship related or financial advice. He has told me on numerous occasions that he looks up to me as his mentor and that he has a lot of respect for me.

He left Jamaica because he got a good job opportunity and he entrusted me with all his financial information and even put my name on his bank account so I am able to lodge and with draw money for him, particularly as I am the one who is looking after his daughter. Since he left, he has been sending money and I have been taking care of his business and ensuring that his daughter’s school fee is paid.

My boyfriend and I had accounts in the Cash Plus scheme and my boyfriend kept on hinting to me that I should invest some of the money that my brother was sending in Cash Plus because I could reap the benefits from the interest. At first, I totally dismissed the idea but I thought about it and I figured that nothing would be wrong with making a little extra money. It could help with the rent and all the other bills.

I didn’t mention my idea to my brother because I knew that he would not want to risk his money in something so unstable. I took $300,000 of the money he had in savings and deposited into my Cash Plus account and everything was going well until the whole scheme crashed and I lost all the money.

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September 30, 2008

I am 17 and my lover (policeman) wants to leave his wife for me


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,

I would like to ask for your sincere advice on a very confusing state that I am in at the moment.

I am a College student of the age of 17 plus, and I am currently "involved" with a police guy who is in his late thirties. He is married to a woman in her mid thirties. They have been in the marital status for a little more than a year.

This guy keeps telling me that he loves me, and wants to leave his wife for me. He also tells me that he want us to have children when I’m in the "working world", and that what he feels for me is real.

I have feelings for this guy as well, but I do not know if what I’m doing is right, should I let him leave his wife? By the way, they do not have any children together!

He says that he does not love her, and he has a strong connection with me, as we are similar in various ways, such as personality traits, etc. He has a lot of things he wants to accomplish with me. He wants us to live together in the future, and he wants us to share our lives together in every way we can, including marriage.

What I am doing might seem very distraught, by onlookers, but I am able to talk to this guy about anything and everything, he is my friend as well as my lover, and he has a lot of qualities that I admire. His wife isn't even living in the same house as him. She is on the other side of the island, he says that they are not "intimate", and haven't been in a long time.

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September 25, 2008

My twin sister slept with my man


Dear Mr. ProppaFix,

I really don’t know why I am writing this letter because I used to think that only lame a*s people do this kind of stuff, but I have found myself in a really sticky situation and I need some unbiased advice. I am a Jamaican who currently lives in the United States. I have an identical twin sister who I share an apartment with. We go to the same university but study different major.

The problem started when I met this really cute guy at school during orientation week. We started talking when he approached me and asked me something about the major I was doing and we discovered we were studying the same thing. I was so excited and I told my sister as soon as I saw her. She seemed a bit jealous when I told her but I thought it was just because she was scared that I would no longer have time for her.

After a couple of days, we started dating and everybody would stare at us in the mall because we were always all over each other. We went everywhere together and we did all our assignments together. I even stayed at his dorm a few nights, which made my sister mad, but I didn’t care. I really started to feel for this guy.

My sister became more and more miserable as my new relationship blossomed, but I paid it no mind because I thought that she was just being a bit jealous. One day when I came home and we were alone, she made a shocking confession to me. She told me that she tricked my man and fuc**d him behind my back. I was so hurt and upset that I left the apartment for a week and went to stay with one of my girlfriends. I knew that there was something wrong with her, but I really did not expect her to do something like this. I stopped talking to my boyfriend at first, but then I started to wonder if I should really blame him. People have always confused me for my sister and vice versa. I am still mad at my sister because I know she only did it to get my attention, but I am hurt because I feel like I will never be more than ‘two of a kind’ to anybody. I want people to see me as an individual, because although I may look like my sister, my ways are totally different!

At this moment I am very confuse because I don’t know where to begin. Do you think I should forgive my sister for what she has done and what should I do with my man? Do you think he did it on purpose?

-Two of a kind

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September 17, 2008

20 days of marriage & my husband can't have sex


Dear Mr.Proppafix:
I don't know if this is the right thing to ask you about or not but I figure if it isn't you'll throw it away, anyway here goes. I have been married for 20 days and my husband and I can't have sex. I don't think there are any problems with either one of us but he mentally believes he has a problem. We have tried a lot but never been able to do it. Sometimes it hurts me a whole lot if I'm not into it so he'll stop or sometimes he goes soft. But I just don't know what to do.

Dear S.M,
I am sorry to hear that you are having a problem so early in your marriage but I am sure that this can be solved if you are both willing to work at it. Please do not ignore it because bedroom problems can often lead to other much greater ones.

Judging from what is in your letter, I can tell that you and your husband hadn’t been having sex prior to getting married. This means that you are just starting to share a sex life together and it can take some time to get to know what each other likes. You need to sit down and talk about what is happening or what is going through your head when you are about to have sex. Let your partner know what turns you on the most and if he’s able to do that, I am sure that it will be a much enjoyable experience.

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September 8, 2008

My boyfriend is bi-curious - "he wants to be with another couple"


Dear Mr. ProppaFix:

Well I don't know where to begin. I am crying and shaking right now. To tell you a little background on my relationship. I am a27 year old female, and I am dating a 37 year old man. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and he has a 7-year-old daughter that I get a long great with. I couldn’t be happier, I met him through work, and our relationship is very strong, or so I thought!

A few weeks ago, he had a day off work to go golfing. When I got home from work, I always get on the computer to check my email but this time he had forgotten to sign off the computer. It was on a website called horny matches and didn’t want to be nosy so I signed off. I was curious though, so I wrote down his screen name to check into it later. Later that night I told him "thanks for the nude picks on the computer” his face got a little weird look and he laughed it off. A few days later, I just had to see what his profile said on that website, so I looked. To my surprise, it says he is bi-curious and would like to meet another couple. I wanted to see how far he would go with this, so I made a fake profile to his exact wants - a couple looking for bi-male for fun. I winked at him a couple times, and he fell for it and emailed this fake profile.

He said he was interested and would like to meet sometime. (OH my goodness - he wasn't supposed to email them). I decided I would email back, seeing how far he would actually go. I emailed saying "we" were interested in him too and when would he like to meet. He emailed back, asking if this Saturday would work for us.

It so happens that I was going to be out of town with family that same coming weekend, so I won't be around. He wasn't really supposed to email this fake profile. I am heartbroken!! What should I do? We are living together, and this is the first time that I was planning to leave the house overnight without him. That jerk, the one time I leave and he is making plans to cheat on me. I thought since he was emailing this "other" couple I would ask questions about him, pretending "we" wanted to get to know him better. I asked if he has ever been with another couple and if he has had any experience with a man. He answered no to being with another couple, but yes, he has given oral to a man. I also asked what is fantasies were - he answered by saying that "he wants to be with another couple." He then asked the fake couple if the boyfriend was bisexual. I am so sick to my stomach because I didn't see any signs of this.

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September 1, 2008

Reggaeboyz – He sent me to College but I am going to leave – Did I use Him?


Dear Mr. ProppaFix,

I am a regular reader of your column and would love to encourage you to keep up the good work you are doing. I am 22yrs old and just finished a Bsc Degree in Marketing at an American university.

Ever since going to high school I have been a great football fan going to every schoolboy football games that I could. I didn’t believe however that I would fall so crazily in love with a football player. I always told myself that I would never date one because I think they are mostly womanizers. To my surprise and misfortune I met this guy that I have been dating for the last 4 years, he plays for Jamaica but lives in England as he's contracted on a major team there.

At first, he tried so hard to convince me that he was different, I introduced him to my family and he introduced me to his. There are women constantly calling my phone from Jamaican area codes as well as England area codes shortly after he leaves each location and he says it is a stalker girl from England that likes him but he told her he's with me and she makes her friends in Jamaica call me when she knows he's there. He also justifies it by saying I should expect that because he is a well-known footballer.

He paid my rent while I was in college and was a major financial support for me, he constantly tells me that I am going to leave him when I accomplish my Degree, and frankly I think I am. I have put up with his cheating for much too long and he always uses the relationship I have with his family as a ploy for us to stay together. I am so depressed and his constant cheating has forced me to study harder and I am graduating with honors and made the Dean’s list and at this point in my life I think enough is enough and I can’t take it anymore and I am leaving.

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August 28, 2008

My husband is a bisexual - What must I do?


Hi Mr. ProppaFix - I am a well educated woman in a good job. I used to laugh at people that wrote to these advice columns, but I think that you do a really good job when it comes on to giving good advice. I have found myself in a real jam and I was wondering if you could help me out because I have nobody else that I can chat with face to face about my business. bisexual

I have been married to my husband for three years and we courted for five years before that so I thought I knew him but apparently, there were things that I didn’t know. The problems all started about two years into our marriage when certain things became apparent.

We have a family friend that my husband and I knew before we got married. I would to believe that they are only best friends as they spent a lot of time together and they even worked at the same company. The first sign of any problems happened when my husband proposed to me and at the time, I could not understand why his friend stopped coming round to the house as he used to. My husband said that they had a little conflict and were no longer on speaking terms. I accepted his explanation and thought nothing of it as the best of friends have conflicts from time to time.

Couple of days after I was doing some chores around the house and I found that my husband had left his phone and gone out with his friend. I have never had any reason to doubt his loyalty to me in any way, but for some strange reason - I decided to have a look at his text messages and I was shocked at what I found. There was a message in his phone that was saying that the person missed him and how long they haven’t been able to make love at their favorite spot in such a long time. As you can imagine I was so upset and I really didn’t know what to do. There was no name attached to the text. So I private my number and dialed and to my surprise - a man answered the phone. At first, I couldn’t believe what I was hearing and I didn’t want to believe so I hung up the phone without saying anything. I called my closest sister later that day, she called the number and got the same person, and later we found out that it was my husband’s best friend.

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August 18, 2008

Her private area smells - what should I do?


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I am a twenty-year-old student of a prominent tertiary institution in the corporate area. Most girls at school find me attractive as they say that I am a ‘face boy’ and I work out so I am quite muscular. Something has been bothering me for a few weeks and I need your advice on what I should do.

I am relatively popular at school, so I know many females from all different faculties. A few weeks ago, I was a home sleeping when a girl who said that she was a secret admirer called my phone. She said that she got my number from one of her friends and she saw me on campus and really wanted to get to know me. We agreed to meet up later that night at her place.

When I got to her house later that night, I was surprised to find out that I knew her and not only that- she was in my faculty, but in a different year. I had no idea that she was admiring me on that level. She was not really my type because she was a bit on the chubby side but I thought - what the hell - might as well make use of the opportunity!

To cut a long story short, I ended up spending the night, but it was not what I anticipated at all. When things started to get very hot between us and I started to kiss her and caress her body everything was fine. It was all good up until the point that I started to strip off her clothes and I noticed a foul smell in the room. At first, I was wondering, almost in denial, as to where the smell was coming from, but the more I took off, the worse the odor got. I am a very fussy guy when it comes on to hygiene but I know that I am not exaggerating when I say that this girl's p*ssy smell worse than a dead decomposing person (and I know what a dead person smells like).

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August 12, 2008

My Husband blames me for financial setback


Hi, Mr. Proppa Fix

I have three children with my husband and he has a 25 year old from a previous marriage. here is my problem we recently filed bankruptcy about one year ago he had vowed to me that he would not tell any of his family members about our financial business especially with the bankruptcy, however he told his son who lives in Florida 300 miles away from us .He tells him all of our financial and personal information, I even overheard him on the phone. I asked him why he told him our secret and he said ‘so what’- he has a business degree in finance and he knows what he is doing. I feel like it is none of his damn business degree or not.

The step son was always asking us to refinance our home when he was working at the mortgage company!! I didn’t want my house refinanced at the time, but he still continued to call us every day and damn harassing me. His topic of conversation all the time is about money, that’s all he talks about and quite frankly it is disgusting!! He talks fast and in circles and he asked my husband who gets our house when we die and if we have a life insurance policy, and he tells my husband things like oh your house isn’t worth what we are asking for. I overheard my husband saying that he wants a divorce from me because of the financial setback is all my fault and that I am bipolar and that he wants his son to come here and get in my face and tell me what to do. What the hell is going on here?

My husband also 2 years ago called his ex girlfriend up and then lied to me about it. She called his cell phone that he left on the kitchen table and it has been one thing after another with this man - strange voices on his cell phone as well- females I might add. I want the divorce and I told him that 2 years ago. So please help me and get back to me I am so mad and angry and upset I know my marriage is done but my question to you is why he feels he has to tell his son all of our personal and financial information. He can’t do anything for us unless he plans on bringing us a suitcase full of money! This is a kid who loves to talk and is a big bullshitter and just wants money from his dad and to nose and pry in our business- get back to me.



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August 6, 2008

Should I tell my husband about my threesome?


Dear Mr. Proppafix

I have some burning issues that I have to sort out before I will be able to progress with my life. I am a 28 year old married woman living in upper St Andrew with a blossoming career in marketing. My husband a handsome - well known businessman that many women consider attractive and throw themselves at him on a daily basis. We have been married for close to four years now and so far our relationship has been wonderful.

There is a huge skeleton in my closet that is getting to me; even to the point where I find it difficult to sleep at times because I feel so guilty. About six months into our marriage, I was doing some shopping on the mall one weekend when my ex- boyfriend who worked with a clothing company, called me and said he wanted to fit some of the new clothing that had just come from abroad. I hesitated but eventually agreed to pass by his place.

I had no intention of doing anything but trying on some clothes but when I was in the changing room, my ex opened the door on me and one thing lead to another and we ended up on the floor sexing each other like two mad people. He knew I couldn’t resist him because he was always the best lover I ever had. We made love a long time and I could tell that he really missed my body. The problem occurred when his friend who was in the other room sorting out some clothes ‘accidentally’ walked in on us and I couldn’t believe that my ex actually offered him ‘some’ instead of running him.

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July 30, 2008

He beats her for anal sex - Now she's a lesbian


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix
I am a 19 year old Jamaican born young lady, who currently resides in Miami. I am what you might consider to be attractive as I have a light complexion, with long hair and a coco cola bottle shape. As a result of this, I never had a problem with getting attention from guys ever since I developed. To make matters worse, my body developed early, and I noticed that all the boys in my neighborhood and even my father’s friends started to give me more attention.

Even though a lot of boys liked me, I tried to keep my intimate boyfriends to a minimal because I didn’t want people to view me as a b*tch. No matter how I tried, all the guys that I dated all turned out to be dogs. I always tried to be faithful to them and nine out of ten times they either cheat or start to act up on me.

My worse relationship was with this married guy that was a bit older than me and was very abusive and sexually perverted. He wanted to experience me from the ‘back door’ (Butt) - all kinds of sh*t and he would beat me if I didn’t comply with his wishes. After leaving him, I sort of began to give up on men totally because I have had so many bad experiences it just didn’t make sense to be with them. I would settle for a one night stand whenever I got the urge, but I found that I needed more in terms of comfort and security.

This is where my problems really begun - my best friend is a bisexual female and ever since we have been friends; she has been trying to convince me to have sex with her. I used to say no, but ever since my bad experience with the married man, the idea of giving up men totally has become more attractive. One night we were home alone and she begged me to let her make me have an orgasm and to be honest with you, when she licked my p*ssy I felt like I was in another galaxy.

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July 21, 2008

I wash, cook, clean, and have sex – But I think my husband is cheating


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix, I have a problem and need your help. I have been married for 4 years and I love my husband, I know he loves me too, at least so I thought. But lately things are just not the same - he doesn’t seem to appreciate me anymore.

I wash, cook, clean, pamper him, have sex and do all the normal things that are expected in a marriage. Whenever he gets text messages or phone calls he hides them. I found a few that was sent to him and they sound like something you would say to your man. I also saw a few little sexy notes that he sent and he has never ever wrote text messages like that to me. The only time he shows interest in me is when he wants to have sex or something to be done.

I hardly get to see him or communicate with him because all he does is work, then roam the street and comes home late at nights. He is on the phone all the time with other people and he seems to be fine, except for when he has to deal with me.

I have done everything I can including: keeping myself in shape, get my hair done and put myself together like I always do. I try to build little conversations, but all he does is shut me out. I am not sure what else to do as I have tried. I think he is seeing someone else but I do not want to assume. Please give me your advice or what you think. Help!!!!



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July 14, 2008

Mr Proppa Fix To EAT or not to EAT- that is the question!


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix, I’m confused about a certain situation and I need some advice. I have been dating this girl for a while now. Early in our relationship we talked about oral sex and we both shared the same view about it being repulsive and we decided we would never do it. We’ve been having sex for about 5 months now and it has been very good. About a week ago she related to me what her friends were telling her about oral sex as they have been involved in it. She decided that she would like for us to give it a try. I have always thought oral sex was something I would never be involved in but right now I’m not so sure. I tried to seek advice from two of my close friends, and to my dismay they said I should do it. One just said he didn’t have any problems with it, and the other said it was good. He also went on to say if I don’t do it to her then someone else will.

I’m not really worried about that though as I trust her. I tried talking to one of my other friends (a girl) about it and her view was the same. She suggested that I do it. She said her boyfriend does it to her and she really enjoys it. I tried to imagine myself doing it to my girlfriend and I grossed myself out thinking about, so much that I nearly started vomiting. I told my girlfriend that the idea is still repulsive to me. She was understanding and asked me if it is ok for her to do it to me then, and I do not need to do it right away, she’ll wait until I’m comfortable with it. I did not give her an answer to that question right away as I thought it would be unfair to her for her to do it alone. I have been reading articles about it online and to be honest I’ve become curious, so much that I think I might end up doing it. Is it wrong to feel like I might want to do it? Is it wrong to actually do it?

-Young Man.

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July 7, 2008

Mr. Proppa Fix - I am in love with a stranger - Cyber Love

Family Disapproved of Cyber Love


I’m living in the UK. About two years back I met this guy on a web site who’s from Jamaica, ever since the first time we chatted we just clicked and we’ve been chatting and communicating via phone since then. When even I’m chatting or speaking to him I just feel really happy. I think about him 24/7 and I would really like to spend the rest of my life with him. I know it might sound silly but I love him with all my heart, since I’ve started chatting with him and we decided to have a long distance relationship. I haven’t been with any other guy it’s like no one else matters or interests me. I just want to wait for him.

The problem is that my family and friends don’t see things the way I do. They are saying that there’s no way I can be in love with someone I’ve never met in person before and that things will never work out. Everyone is saying that he probably has his girl in Jamaica and he’s just using me, but I just can’t get myself to believe that. It’s not like he asks me for money or anything like that, we just chat and make plans as to how we’re going to work towards having a future together. I’m suppose to be meeting him this July for the first time and I’m really excited and looking forward to it but the way everyone else is acting it’s just stressing me out. They are making judgments about him and also talking him down because he’s not as well off as I am.

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June 30, 2008

Mr. Proppa Fix- My man has a small d**k


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,
I read your advice column yesterday (last week) and was impressed with the advice you gave to the young man. I have my own dilemma and would like your advice.

I am a 20 year-old woman attending a tertiary level institution in the Montego Bay area. I consider myself very attractive and most guys compliment my figure. I am also an outgoing person who enjoys meeting people.

I have been dating this guy for two months, he is a perfect gentleman, and he always tries to give me anything I want. He makes a respectable living and he is very progressive and ambitious as he is always looking for new opportunities. We connect on a social level, however, the problem is that he has a very small d**k - when I say small I mean that it is short and very mawga. The first time we were about to have sex, and he took off his clothes I had to search to find it- it was so embarrassing.

I know that he is sensitive about it because I realize that he always wants the lights to be off whenever we are having sex and he has had to resort to ‘other’ methods of trying to please me sexually. The thing is that nothing can replace a good d**k and that is what I am used to getting, as my last boyfriend was very well endowed.

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June 23, 2008

The 16-Year-old stalker - Mr. Proppa Fix

Mr. Proppa Fix - Tek it or leave it


Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,

I am an educated young man with a well paying job in the Corporate Area. I consider myself well mannered and good with women.

A few weeks ago, I was introduced by a friend to a young woman who attends a tertiary institution in Kingston. She is very attractive and smart and we had no problem hitting it off. We went out for a date on the same night we met and after we went back to her place to ‘chill’. Nothing happened because I think that people should get to know each other before they become intimate. We kept in touch over the phone and went on several dates after that and we have started to develop feelings for each other. My problem is the other day she told me that she has something to confess to me - she told me that she had lied about her age and she was in fact 16 instead of 18 as she had previously told me.

Mr. Proppa fix I felt upset and confused because I don’t usually date people that are younger than me and this girl is nearly 8 years my junior. The major dilemma is that she is desperate for us to have sex and I am very hesitant because of the age difference.

Most of my friends are styling me as a ‘waste man’ and a’ rucks’. They think that if she looks ready for the plucking then I should give it to her the real and proper way. However, I really do not want to take advantage of her even though I know that she is not a virgin and legally she is the age of consent. She keeps calling me and expressing the same sentiments and my friends keep telling me that nobody has to know and we can keep it between both of us.

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April 7, 2008

Sponsors Please Don't Blame It on the Music

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I grew up seeing guns but never had the desire to use one.

fire_people_jamaica_party.jpgViolent movies are made and viewed regularly. Violent music made in other genres every day.

Now I am not condoning violence in music but on the same note why not boycott violent movies and music (from other genres).

In my view the root problem of violence in society is:

1) Bad or insufficient Parenting
2) Poverty and lack of educational and economical opportunities etc.
3) Lack of Mental strength
4) Lack of proper Governance of the Country

The order from 1-4 is important also.

I was born and raised in Kingston 13 along with my sisters many of my cousins. Only one of my cousins turned out bad and that was because of bad parenting.

I lived near a weekly dancehall session for most of my childhood and adolescent years. I grew up seeing guns but never had the desire to use one. Death was an ever present sight especially in the election time but my relatives and I never partake in the violence.

Most of my high school and university friends came from the deep ghettos and know violence but we never indulged.

All of my friends from High School and University that I am in touch with are doing well economically and in many other ways and I have never heard that they were ever involved in any violent acts.

Most of my relatives, friends and I grew up on violent movies and we watch them even now and listen to Movado, Killer, Ninja, Shaba, Beenie, Kartel, Buju, Capleton (yes Buju and Capleton did a lot of violent songs) etc. even now but we don't commit violent acts.

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March 25, 2008

Caribbean Urban Music Awards is just another Hypocritical Organizations

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Urban_Music_Awards.jpgThe Caribbean Urban Music Awards seems to be another overseas invasion, whilst we sit and accept the so-called established industry awards. Proper research has not been done on this Caribbean Urban Music Awards and it's organizers who have in my opinion produced fictitious figures and specs to manipulate bureaucratic trust.

I have two questions to ask:
1. Why is it that our Jamaican music heads are so gullible?
2. What does Urban Music means to Jamaicans who will be voting in the People’s Choice?

Urban Music is the accepted title that media houses, promoters and producers use to avoid explaining their involvement with marked Dancehall artistes. So why is Sizzla getting this award again?

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March 22, 2008

'Daddy Don't Touch Me There' - is Anti-father propaganda

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queen_i_frica_reggaeaccademy_photos.jpgAnti-father propaganda: Queen Ifrica's song demonizes and encourages wholesale disrespect and hatred of fathers. The anti-male feminists couldn't be happier to hear a song like this. "Tear down the patriarchy!"

Mothers, aunts, uncles, brothers and sisters also engage in child molestation, not only the father. If you were sincere about addressing child abuse, you would've spoken to all the guilty parties, which includes every single member of the household and the society at large. You would've chosen your words wisely, to reflect a balance, knowing damn well it isn't only SOME fathers committing this heinous act, but SOME mothers, and other family members as well.

What about the women who are enticing underage girls to join them in lesbian acts? Are you going to sing "Mommy don't touch me there?"... "Policewoman don't touch me there?".. "Madam Teacher don't touch me there?" And what about mothers in incestuous relationships with their sons? You know it's happening. How about a male singer doing the flip version of that song and sing "Mommy don't touch me there?" You would raise hell, wouldn't you? Because the mother is a "sacred cow" and you mustn't say anything to taint the institution of motherhood, even though some mothers should be in prison at this moment for burning kids with close iron, beating babies on their mouths with cups and doing other ills.

Every self-respecting man and father should shun you and your lopsided anti-father propaganda rubbish.

-Loving father

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