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Her private area smells - what should I do?


Mr Proppa fix
I am a twenty-year-old student of a prominent tertiary institution in the corporate area. Most girls at school find me attractive as they say that I am a ‘face boy’ and I work out so I am quite muscular. Something has been bothering me for a few weeks and I need your advice on what I should do.

I am relatively popular at school, so I know many females from all different faculties. A few weeks ago, I was a home sleeping when a girl who said that she was a secret admirer called my phone. She said that she got my number from one of her friends and she saw me on campus and really wanted to get to know me. We agreed to meet up later that night at her place.

When I got to her house later that night, I was surprised to find out that I knew her and not only that- she was in my faculty, but in a different year. I had no idea that she was admiring me on that level. She was not really my type because she was a bit on the chubby side but I thought - what the hell - might as well make use of the opportunity!

To cut a long story short, I ended up spending the night, but it was not what I anticipated at all. When things started to get very hot between us and I started to kiss her and caress her body everything was fine. It was all good up until the point that I started to strip off her clothes and I noticed a foul smell in the room. At first, I was wondering, almost in denial, as to where the smell was coming from, but the more I took off, the worse the odor got. I am a very fussy guy when it comes on to hygiene but I know that I am not exaggerating when I say that this girl's p*ssy smell worse than a dead decomposing person (and I know what a dead person smells like).

I immediately lost my erection and I was too embarrassed to go any further- embarrassed for her not me because any sane man would be turned off by that smell. After being exposed to the odor for a few minutes I started to get a stomach ache and a head ache and I spent the rest of the night in the bathroom on the toilet and occasionally throwing up. I must emphasize that this was and still is the worse smell I have ever encountered in my life.

As soon as ‘morning light’- I was out of there. I got home and went into the shower immediately and then I had to wash my hands with bleach and breeze for about three days until her stench disappeared.

The problem is this girl still has no idea that there is a dead man living inside of her. She keeps on seeing me on campus and asking me when I am planning to come and finish what I started. I feel like I have a responsibility to tell her something because I think she might have a medical issue because that smell is not ordinary. Mr. Proppa fix how can I tell this girl that she needs to do something about her Odor?

Dear P.W.
You have just completed another stage of becoming a man. Until you have had a few bad experiences with the females, you have not experienced anything. I am glad however that you did not go any were near that girl. From what you have described, she really does seem to have a medical problem or she has very poor hygiene. It always amazes me that females with that problem cannot smell it themselves. One of my friends that I was discussing a similar experience with drew an analogy: does the garbage man smell the rubbish truck in the same way as someone who is walking past it would?

The only way that this young woman might know that she needs to seek help is if somebody tells her and maybe you should be the one to do it. I really cannot tell you what to say but I can tell you that - if you do decide on telling her, it must be done as nicely as possible. Do not embarrass her as this could be damaging to her psychologically. Personally, when I was much younger, I had a similar experience, although it was difficult - I managed to tell the woman, and even though I didn’t ‘go there’ with her again, she contacted me and thanked me for bringing it to her attention because she was completely unaware of it.

Take things like this in your strides as a learning experience and better luck next time. You suffered one of the many hazards of casual sex.

That is my advice young man - tek it or leave it

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Comments (51)


Seh so:
Posted by Seh so | August 18, 2008 12:01 PM

dutty puzzy gyal mus go hell!!!

She probably has some STI/STD. Good move to stay far....nuff pretty girly don't wash dem zum zum or dem body. Dem feel seh dem cute so man a go like dem cause dem clothes tight and dem body shapely or dem face pretty.

I believe she can smell her self...if I play ball and come home..I can smell my why can't she?

Dutty gyal..go bade!!!!

this happened to me plenty times:
Posted by this happened to me plenty times | August 18, 2008 12:16 PM

you should have told her right then and there dont hold it back gangsta tell them wen dem stink say dem need medical atention cause if yu couldnt handle di wok she woulda tell u and everybody say u weak u lucky u spend di night

Posted by swizzle | August 18, 2008 12:38 PM

so sar, lef dat, no pooms nuh worth it

Tell Di Gal:
Posted by Tell Di Gal | August 18, 2008 2:08 PM

men like you help to contribute to girl with smell bad p*ssy because if yuh don't let her know yuh thin she's going to believe that something is wrong with her.

Posted by toni | August 18, 2008 2:12 PM

Tell her as nicely as possible... she might have an std and she isn't aware of it... ( don't see how she can't smell that odor).... And men let this be a lesson to u all... don't just meet a cathy and bring her home to f**k.... hahaha u might come up pan a garbage truck...

Posted by secret | August 18, 2008 2:13 PM

from a female view when I remember the first time i got a std and started smelling a little scent that was not normal I became shameful to even go to the doctor but I had to brave it out and went if I did not went god he knows what would happened to me, ladies don't be shame to visit your doctors get your regular check up and you will be good

Posted by emack | August 18, 2008 2:18 PM

sick b*tch

Posted by STEPPA | August 18, 2008 2:24 PM

1st, it sound like you are too much into yourself. We don't need to know what you look like and how many woman admire you. 2nd, I agree with the advise of Mr. Proppa fix, please tell her gentle. I've experience that same thing but the smell wasn't as bad as you describe yours, but it is important you help her by telling her. She may not be aware of it.

Posted by STEPPA | August 18, 2008 2:26 PM

also, next time you are with a woman, you play with the p*ssy first and then you rub your finger across your noise, then you mek her smell your finger.

Posted by Gangsta | August 18, 2008 2:35 PM

Steppa a wha kind of advice that yuh giving the man bout him must play with the p@ssy then rub it across him nose that sound yuh bow several times already Steppa or yuh mean him should run it across his nose instead of rub lol

P.S. Steppa Yuh Bow

Gryna Physician:
Posted by Gryna Physician | August 18, 2008 2:54 PM

Yo am a Former Dacosta Cup Football play and yall now that we ballaz ride a lot of gyals of all type and size,Right am f@ckin a gyal rightnow and her p_ssy use to hav a bad odor,one night we were havin a text chat and I write it in a text and tell her she hav only one problem that I dnt like,she asked what was that and I tell her I dnt like the odor her pumz giv off and she need to take serious measure about it and dnt take it as a disrespect now the reason fa this is bcasue I care about u...She didn't reply to the text at all,afta a week r two she come link me and I was affraid to go there again to smell that spoil scent but to my surprise it was gone...

She tell me str8 up that she have a hole lot of respect for me bcause if it was some guys they wouldn't say anything and jus leave r call her names so this gyal will give me anything I want rightnow so Shatta take my little advise.

First great her wit

"No disrespect but there's one thing I dnt like about u and I wanna share it wit u...

She gonna ask what,then u jus hold her hand and tell her u care about her even if ur not uzimmy jus pretend then tell her that her pumz hav a smell that u dnt like and u want her to take action towards that

Dawg u gonna see a lot of changes in her towards u after u come str8 forward to her..

That's my advise Dawg take it R leave it...Who agree wit me

Posted by nelly | August 18, 2008 2:58 PM

Your a c**ky prick and you deserve to smell that horrible smelling p*ssy because you are so full of your self something had to be greater than you. That would be a stink p*ssy ha! Ha!lol. You deserved it

Posted by KtheEmpress | August 18, 2008 3:09 PM

Some times women have infections and don't know but by the way you described the smell she should have known that something was wrong. Just tell her in the most diplomatic way possible.

Women get yeast, BV and other infections and don't know. If it starts smelling then it has been there a while.

Michelle Michel:
Posted by Michelle Michel | August 18, 2008 3:12 PM

I believe the extent of the smell is grossly exaggerated, becuz if it wz that bad he would have smelled her from she greeted him at the door, much less to have begun foreplay.

Posted by Sean | August 18, 2008 3:39 PM

My youth dah pums deh overripe until it spoil. Maybe u wait too long fi pick the fruit.

Posted by sweet thing | August 18, 2008 4:36 PM

i have never encounter tis problem of my gina smelling, cuz i always use my finger to wash my gina when using femine wash, men who eat my gina tell me it taste sweet, if i get a odour infection i will go to the doctor immediately bcuz my worse fear is a guy telling me my p*ssy stink, so get that p*ssy wash properly or seek medical help

Posted by FLAVAC | August 18, 2008 4:48 PM

it sticky n stink pan fi har side

Posted by machine01 | August 18, 2008 4:52 PM

yow me don lol jah know ,a so the thing set family sometimes the girls them nasty and sometimes them ketch it fr other men,as well as it can b yeast infection gone bad,but jus mek the katty know wats up u see me,then wen she deal wid dat if u still waan fe mash it up it up ro u me don,bless up

Posted by STEPPA | August 18, 2008 5:13 PM

@ Gangsta, I have no problem admitting that i know how to please my WOMAN. That the PROBLEM with most man, they sit down and talk about they no eat pu**y but behind closed door, they have a knife and fork and some roots to wash it down. Yes I enjoy the taste of fresh and clean pu**y.

Posted by Heathen | August 18, 2008 6:21 PM

Good for you. You got exactly what you deserved. Your letter is so full of ego, you seem in love with yourself and your beauty, bout time you buck summen you caan manage. Plus I dont beleive no smell was so bad if you could still sleep there all night. Tap tell lie, fi all you know is one rat did dead unda di bed, cause if you did a vomit and tings, you would have smelled her before she start teck har clothes off. Mi nuh need renking armhole fi teck off dem shirt fi smell dem frowsy arm, suh you story sound holey holey.

Posted by Truth | August 18, 2008 6:25 PM

Yea Steppa, a that mi a say, nuff man a hide and lick. Most girls now a days a tell u strait up, say u hav fi lick it before u stick it, if a that u girl love u hav fi do that fi please her, if she a go left u or bun u, so man like Gansta with him long tongue need fi stop hide.

Posted by Ranxxx | August 18, 2008 6:56 PM

yow u fi tek har inna di showa an DISINFECTANT DAT BL**DCL**T if u have too cause a could a too much man gone tru dat an she nuh bade harself.....

Posted by Sandy | August 18, 2008 9:04 PM

Girlfren, u need 2 c a doctor.

Posted by BiGfLiRT | August 18, 2008 10:26 PM

Personally I am very health conscious and if that smell is anything like u say it was, which i think it wasnt bcuz u have smelt it from u reached the door, she could clearly smell it too.But how is it that u reach as far as to tek off all her clothes, before u realized that u shouldnt go there, come on yute! Some men r just nasty, anyway the point still remains, maybe u need to break it to her slowly, it might change both ur lives significantly.

Ms. Perfect:
Posted by Ms. Perfect | August 18, 2008 11:57 PM

I jus cudnt ignore the comment that SEH SO made.....first of all i am a woman and i do not appreciate a young man (i sure hope that that comment was made by a man)making such a comment or passing judgment on a woman like that. Indeed it is quiet questionable and beyond my comprehension how a female cud have a body odour like that and not notice it. On the other hand we are all humans and no matter what people thinks sometimes shit happens and unfortunately it happens with Asshole like seh so. a foul smell doesnt mean the girl have an STI/STD it cud simple be a bacterial infection known a Vaginosis (sp) correct me if ma spelling is incorrect. More so, some yeast infection carry a smell if it is not treated over a long period or the female doesnt practice good hygiene. Men, you too are also the contributing factor of some of these infections.......Men too do need to practice good hygiene becuz FYI a dutty hood can give a girl one of the above mention infections. Girl know who u sleeping with cuz some of these men are living host for a yeast infection especially when they r f**king 2 of u at the same time and not protecting themselves.....NB. yeast infection can be passed from one woman to another becuz they r both sleeping with the same guy and he jus didnt wash his penis properly.......Girls jus pay a little more attention to you bodies it will do u gud and NUH MEK NUH LIKKLE DUTTY BRUK POCKET BUOY HAV NUTTTIN FI SEH BOUT U........

Posted by mega | August 19, 2008 2:20 AM

yu is a cacky punk, and for all i know u a tell lie pon di girl or yu go try fuck a dead woman, because how can a woman stink that much and don't smell it? you wash your hands for three day to get the sent off, you lieing p**sy, tell the trueth, Your dick fail you and yu want this girl to feel bad. woman who have heast infections gives off an odor, but not what yu discribe, my advised is for yu and not for the girl, lose the fu*king EEEEGO i can tell from your letter yu don't have any experince with woman. if that pu**y was that stink like yu said why would yu stay there for the night? lieing stock of sh*t!!!! this is a fact, men who like talk about how good they looks, always the ones who love to admire ather men as sexy object. and also i think yu should wash your mouth too becuase i know u eat some of that to make up for your fail d*ck.

Gryna Physician:
Posted by Gryna Physician | August 19, 2008 4:48 AM

All s_ck p_ssy drop eeen,yo all them man inside ya whe lick di naaaany jus leave unuh numba incase mi gyal want a lick mi bring her to the tongue mechaniczzz,that's the reason why I love to F_ck boi gyal bcause they do the lickin while I do the D_ckin,,,How can a man talk bout please woman and go s_ck p_ssy,the closet me go to s_ck p_ssy was to finga a gyal then eat food and rememba I didn't wash ma hands,for the entire night ma stomach sick to kno tha nookie pass my face so close boi,,,Once I start hav sex no gyal nuh worry ting about me s_ckin breast bcause they hav a tendency of feelin up the pumz and then rubb up there breast and want man fi s_ck dat,No king...After I dnt related to Beenie....

Posted by Can | August 19, 2008 10:09 AM

While I believe the young man is exaggerating the odor he experienced (come on now "a dead man" - pleeese) I understand how unpleasant it must have been for him. I agree that he should tell the young lady. Take her aside privately & in a kind manner tell her of his concerns about the odor. Also this is something he should keep to himself to avoid causing her embarrassment, cuz I doubt she is aware of how bad her odor is, or in her immaturity, may very well be afraid to visit a doctor. Most young women/men don't how dangerous it is to ignore an STD/STI.

Telling the girl, however, takes a level of maturity that I doubt this guy has, due to his narcissistic attitude. I hope this experience teaches you a lesson, cuz all real men know that the ultimate proof of their manhood is to refuse a doesnt make you are a wuss or weak, it shows you have the strength to not run down every piece of tail that flashes before you (how many men have run down p*ssy that lead to their deaths). Also practice safe sex, cuz ur sexual practices could also be passing on a similar infection to one of your many girls.

Posted by Anonymous | August 19, 2008 10:18 AM

she is walking dead tell her go although u joking

Sexxxy s:
Posted by Sexxxy s | August 19, 2008 11:06 AM

Well I must admit this has happened to me before. The only person I was having sex with was my boyfriend, and everything was going good, but one day I smelled a little odor I decided that I would take another shower and wash again. But days later I smelled the smell again and it was getting worse. I could smell it through my clothes. I ran my a*s to my doctor and she told me it was Bacterial Vaginosis. My doctor said that it's not necessarily a STD but it can be transmitted from person to person. Believe me this girl knew she smelled she was hoping you couldn't smell it, because if it was as bad as you said it was there was no way she didn't know.

Posted by sweet thing | August 19, 2008 12:03 PM

GRYNA PHYSICIAN, i usually love ur comments bcuz we share the same artist [vybz kartel,]and u seem like the ganster type, but i cant agree wit ur last statement about not sucking breast during sex, i love when my man suck on my breast gentle like a baby,it usually get me so wet, sometime mi have wipe the p*ssy, bcuz it so wet, that one of my quickest way of cuming. f**king & sucking my breast while the other hand thumbin my nipple, the breast is my second weak spot

Posted by DISGRUNTLED | August 19, 2008 1:01 PM

Lord have mercy. This is the reason why man must not s**k p*ssy. The though just gross mi out, it mek mi belly start hurt mi.
I agree that the young bredda full a him self. First thing once him tek off the pants or skirt him should smell the rotten p*ssy, but him sent as far as fingering it. Him finger should a drop off. Yow brethren, tell the girl she is not smelling right (quite gently now) and follow her to the doctor. All p*ssy suckers commenting - watch unnuh self

Seh So:
Posted by Seh So | August 19, 2008 1:16 PM

@Ms Perfect

You say bacterial vaginosis isn't an STI....yet you claim she may have got the infection from having sex with a guy tha didn't wash his h**d properly.......that sound like an infection that was transmitted via sex!!! Idioooot gyal.

You must be one of the woman who has a stink pum pum or who don't bade.

You can't tell me that a girl that smells so rancid can't smell herself.....AH LIE (in my bogle voice).

FYI I said it could be an STD or an STI or due to her not washing.....which one of those statements are inaccurate?

carmen morris:
Posted by carmen morris | August 19, 2008 1:42 PM

i think u should brake it gently to her it not nice to know that u know about it and dont tell her what kind of man is u tell her she will understand good luck bye

Miss Curious:
Posted by Miss Curious | August 19, 2008 3:22 PM

This guy is an incredible lier, a girl that stink, and she dont know. Dude you need to stop lie, thats just your excuse because you couldnt get it up.Talking all crap about how popular you are, all i see right there is just narcism..

Posted by sims | August 19, 2008 4:37 PM

Miss Curious: I bet your p*ssy stinks - talking bout is because the man could not get it up...a lot of man can't get it up because of the womam - but because they are protecting her feelings...they just take the hit for it...I guess when some thing is wrong with you b*tches...the men must just tell you straight up...because in the unnu same one going to tell all unnu friend bout tha boy ova deh suh can't get it up...

Posted by Sims | August 19, 2008 4:53 PM

Sims, sound like and woman run him out of her room and tell him to come back when him get a better di(k. Sorry son. No need to curse at Miss Curious.

Posted by mamalastboy | August 19, 2008 7:07 PM

Yo king mi believe seh di gal p*ssy stink but no how u a talk it but she could take care of herself better than that. Big up to the girl who take care of them p*ssy and keep it clean nuff respect. nasty gal dem dat no man no suppose to a seh gal p*ssy stink.

Gryna Physician:
Posted by Gryna Physician | August 19, 2008 8:36 PM

@Sweet Ting(wit a vybz kartel laugh,si mi aseh still enuh baby)dnt get me wrong now zeen but some gurls finga the pumz and then play wit the breast then some man s_ck dat so when am s_ckin breast I hav to pay keen attention to every single move that chick make bcause I dnt want no gyal guh outaroad guh talk bout she season breast fa me to s_ck,I mus say am very very romantic but wit caution a kartel a mi teacha lol u si mi aseh....I always admire ur comments also but I neva knew ur were admirin mines...Anyway take care of ur sweetself and gwaan listen to our daddy addi,Am out

Posted by junglelist | August 19, 2008 10:03 PM

this is why uhnu must take the gal dem to the bathroom before sex wash out the pums good and and the season breast them this way shi cannot guh tell har friend them dat big man suck season breast

Posted by toni | August 19, 2008 10:37 PM

uno man a real drama...

Mi Seh So:
Posted by Mi Seh So | August 20, 2008 10:16 AM

NUFF of those dancehall guys eat pumm like its oxtail and rice and peas.

I eat pum pum and I love it!!! This no oral sex thing in Jamaica is dumb!!! thats why nuff of unnu woman are not satisfied.....most girls don't cum by b*ddy alone. You all should fight gainst the men in JA who constantly have sex with under age girls....or the undercover ba**ybwoy weh sell dem ba**y fi by jeans and sneakers.....Why fault a man because he loves women and wants to please them?

List of girls i will nyam

Kris Kelly

Alicia Keys

Miss Jamaica

All di gyal dem inna beenie man video


Posted by Can | August 20, 2008 11:43 AM

LOL! How did this become about eating pum pum & season breast? Outtaroad people, unna a di best! I always end up laughing when I'm on this website. Much love.

Posted by sweet thing | August 20, 2008 11:57 AM

GRYNA PHYSICIAN, like i said i am of fan of u, so u are forgiven, no gruge hold, and continue to get me laughin with ur nice words

Gryna Physician:
Posted by Gryna Physician | August 20, 2008 5:47 PM

@mi seh yute ur talkin about gyalz u wud s_ck and u wud s_ck dem gyal deh bcause of money so I guess if micheal jackson,usha,neyo,and 50 cent giv u a big jeep and it full a money yuh mek dem f_ck yuh 2,o x out micheal jackson bcause he like the yunga ones he gonna find u too old but what am tryin to say king yuh can't b stretchin out ur tongue bcause of money yuh zimmy,Why yuh dnt wanna s_ck sum ghetto gyal and not a supastar eeee watch wha yuh mouth yute yuh tongue too jumpy fi money,if u wanna s_ck p_ssy do it off ur own comfort dnt make no gyal pressure u nor do it fi money,I've been wit rich gyalz and they leave bcause they want gangsta to chaww yuh mad....yo go listen kartel lolli pop remix and reconciser....I can't tell u what to do but I can only giv u some good advise,make sure u use a long love condom on ur tongue u f_ckin bowazzzz...Am out

Posted by STEPPA | August 21, 2008 9:56 AM

@Mi Seh SO, I agree 100%, but not with your list. The man think hitting the pus*y hard and that's it, no. Every woman want to feel a man to caress her Clit with his tongue and stick the tongue in and out of the pus*y.

Posted by guardian | August 21, 2008 10:01 AM

if take a strong person to tell others the truth but honesty is the way to go. u can give her advices about see a doctor and being with one partner and use a condom everytime.

Posted by Foxy | August 22, 2008 3:57 PM

@ Sey So
Yu is a f**king idiot...go read up pon the thing its not an STD, yu can get if from very strong soaps, a dirty rag, a napkin, any damn thing, so before yu come pon yah a talk bout the woman stink, yu need fi read and educate yu dam self you and many others are some retards.

Thats y woman fi know who dem a frigg, and go to that GYN no mek no small buddy or big p*ssy gal have things fi sey bout uno.

READ before you come on eer and pass judgement.

Posted by Anonymous | August 23, 2008 2:49 AM

is this 4 real?

Da Beautiful Tamara:
Posted by Da Beautiful Tamara | August 24, 2008 7:40 AM

If you smelled her pum then she smelled her pum, there's no way on dis earth they gyal can go to the bathroom and nuh smell it!

Posted by sdgsd | October 14, 2008 5:34 PM

Dutty stinkin gal!!!

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